and the world says grow up..

https://youtu.be/KVxdA4Z2d54

To my future daughter

I know,
You're  yet not here
This world is yet not ready
To accept you,
As this world haven't yet learnt
To give the respect ,Where it is due.


I know,
They will not let you fit in
The journey will not be easy
Roads will hit you hard,
Hard enough to make you crazy;;

I know,
There will be days,when
You will question your own worth;
Don't reach them for answers,
They'll make you move heaven and earth;;

There will not be a single day
Without you being abased by them
Your height,your weight,your skin color;for all
they will make, you feel ashamed;;

Remember;
Though few  will push you back,
Few will surely hold your hand;
Don't forget to show them your worth,
By taking your own stand;;

Show them;
 Who your are,
Bring out the fierce queen;
It's not always the knight in armour,
Sometimes you fight on your own and win.
                                   
                                             - Sudipa Adak

NO MORE DRAMA..IT IS HIGH TIME

Hello everyone ,,, i hope you are doing good.. 

Let's talk about my topic for this post without any further discussion..

Yesterday when i was coming back from  tuition late at night three boys who were in a bike (and we say we have traffic rules) called me "ei mutki" i,e 'hey fat girl' yes i am fat i take no offence but my question is do i know you ?or do you know me ?or is it your fucking business ?

And the best part is people just ignore..next time someone can even call me slut and i just have to ignore..but why?? I didn't do anything to you then why are you wasting your time abusing me...do you have anything named SELF RESPECT ...i don't think so..

So this incident lead me to this post and the topic is "JUDGMENT"

We all have the tendency to create different kinds stories about people and their lives..i judge too...but if you are judging someone  then have the guts to say it in that person's face otherwise you are a bloody pervert ..and you should be ashamed of yourself..

 

Now the most ridiculous part of our society here character of a person is defined by their cloths ,the amount of money they have..may it be a lady or a guy... That lady is divorcee then she must be characterless and the man is divorcee then he must have got affairs ... WOW and the funniest part we don't place the mirror infront of us...

Now the biggest problem if a guy assaults you it's a crime but people will question your character amd if a girl beats a boy up then we laugh at the boy everyone ignores the fact that crime is crime no matter if it is against man or woman or animal ...we all have the same right ..

Now it's up to you which path you choose if you are a coward  then assault us and judge us..or else respect .... If you will give it you will get it back..now your choice what you have to offer respect or disrespect ..

And to the people who feel bad about being judged don't worry life is full of lemons..you just need to learn how to use it after all those vodka shots... ;-) ;-p..

And remember one thing in a game the audience shouts the players don't ..so let the haters bark....you just give back peoples nose if you find it in your business .. :-)  ;-p  .

Till then eat healthy saty fit...

Signing off 

Your writer 

SUDIPA ADAK